Do You Have to Go to Your Graduation Ceremony?

Jun 27, 2024

Graduation is a significant milestone. It marks the end of an educational journey and the beginning of a new chapter. But do you have to go to your graduation ceremony? This post is for those who are considering not attending their university graduation ceremony and want to graduate in absentia. 

What Is a Graduation Ceremony?

A graduation ceremony, often called commencement, is a formal event. It celebrates the completion of a degree. Students dressed in academic regalia walk across the stage one by one in acknowledgement of their academic achievement. Family and friends often attend as guests to share this special moment. After the ceremony, formal photographs are taken and most universities host a post-ceremony celebration. 

Reasons to Attend Your Graduation Ceremony

Celebrate Your Achievement

  • Personal Milestone: Graduation is a momentous occasion. It is an experience you’ll remember for the rest of your life. Attending will fill you with inspiration to continue succeeding in all areas of your life.
  • Recognition: It’s a time for recognition of your hard work and dedication. Some might think “What’s the point of attending graduation?” it is important to recognise your life achievements. 

Share the Moment

  • Family and Friends: It allows your loved ones to share in your success. Remember, even though you did all the hard work, your loved ones also invested in your academic journey and supported you. They will be delighted to witness this proud moment.
  • Networking: It’s an opportunity to meet peers and professors one last time. It may be a last opportunity to get some of your peer’s contact details. Graduation is a great networking opportunity because some of your peers may have already begun their graduate jobs. Networking with them may help you to uncover contacts in your desired industry or even job opportunities. 

Reasons You Might Skip Your Graduation Ceremony: Graduating in Absentia

What Is Graduating in Absentia?

Graduating in absentia means you receive your degree without attending the ceremony. 

You do not need to attend your graduation ceremony. If you do not attend, your certificate will still be posted to you. 

When you opt to graduate in absentia you will not be able to attend a ceremony at a later date. If you do want to attend your graduation ceremony, but cannot make the scheduled date, contact your university to defer your ceremony to a later date.

Personal Preferences

Not everyone feels the need for a formal ceremony. Some are indifferent and simply opt not to attend. Alternatively, you may have some personal reasons influencing your decision not to attend. 

Practical Concerns

  • Cost: Graduation ceremonies can be expensive due to gown hire, travel, and accommodations. If graduation ceremony costs are your main concern, contact your university, they may be able to support you financially.
  • Time: It might not fit into your schedule, especially if you’ve already started a job or moved away. Graduation ceremonies last 60-90 minutes generally.

Making the Decision

Factors to Consider

  • Personal Circumstances: Consider your own situation and preferences.
  • Financial Impact: Weigh the costs involved.
  • Importance: Decide how important the ceremony is to you and your loved ones.

Alternatives to Attending

  • Small Celebrations: Host a small party with family and friends.
  • Virtual Celebrations: Some schools offer virtual ceremonies or live streams.

Conclusion

Do you have to go to your graduation ceremony? The choice is ultimately yours. Before you decide, reflect on your time at university and your achievements.  Consider your personal preferences, circumstances, and the importance of the event. Whether you attend the ceremony or graduate in absentia, the achievement remains the same. Celebrate your success in the way that feels right for you.

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